How to send a private message along with a friend request
So, we found a user with whom it would be nice to start a dialogue. But, unfortunately, his personal account is closed. What should we do in this case?
There is a little trick. When you send a user a friend request, you can optionally send them a message. This is done as follows.
Go to his page. If there is no “Send message” button, then the personal account is closed.
Let's do the following. Send a friend request - click the “Add as a friend” button. After that, it will change - it will say “Application sent”.
Now click on it again. A drop-down menu will appear. In it, click “New message”.
A window will open in which you need to type a message. Then click the “Submit” button.
After this, the user will receive your friend request. And with it your message.
Ways to write a message on VKontakte if your personal account is closed
Despite the fact that you won’t be able to register the desired notification directly on a social network, there are ways to do this. Each of them is worth considering in detail.
Sending a message via notifications
A fairly effective way to send a letter to a user whose personal account is closed is to use notifications. But to do this, you need to know the user ID. You should also have your own community. You will need to invite the necessary person to it. In general, you will need to follow these simple instructions:
- You must sign in to your own account. From there, visit the page of the desired user, and then make a copy of the ID link from the address bar.
- Log in to your community and make a post. You first need to enter “@id – the desired person”, then click the spacebar and insert the required message.
- Now all that remains is to publish your post.
After this, the person you need will notice the message indicator, which will be highlighted and, by clicking on it, will read the notification.
Sending a message along with a gift
In order to write to a user who has limited access to notifications, you can send him a gift with an attached message. To do this, you need:
- Log in to the profile of the user you need, and then click on the gift icon at the bottom of his avatar.
- An icon will appear that says “Send Gift.” Click it.
- Select the gift you want to send. A form will open in which you need to register your notification. Also, if you want, you can hide the message from others.
- Now click on the “Submit” button and that’s it.
Keep in mind that a VKontakte gift costs 21 rubles. You just need to keep an eye on various promotions and you will find it even for free.
Sending a message in a friend request
No one can disable adding VK as a friend on the social network, use this. To send a notification with a request for a friendship request, you need to perform the following manipulations:
- Log in to the page of the person you need.
- Now click on the button called “Add as Friend”.
- The key will change in appearance and you will see that “Application has been sent.” Now you need to click on the triangle to the right of the key. After this, a special menu will appear. Select "New message".
- Now write a letter in the window and click on the send icon.
Next, when the user you need notices the application, he will also see the letter in it. But keep in mind that not every person checks friend requests regularly. Because of this, the method is not very effective.
Contact a person through his friends
This method can also be used and is quite effective. You just need to go to the page of the user you need and view the list of his friends. It may well be that you will find someone you know. Then you need to write to him and ask him to convey your message in a polite manner.
Connect via group conversations
If you are looking for a universal method that will allow you to establish a connection with a user who has limited access to private messages, then group dialogues are best suited. It works most often. But to use it you need to have at least one mutual friend. He should invite both of you to a group dialogue. If this happens, then you will be able to write letters without any possible restrictions. If a mutual friend is absent, then you need to do the following:
- Open a list containing the friends of the required user.
- Find the person who has the page open at the top of the list. Write him a letter, tell him about the problem and ask for help.
If a user wants to help you, he will create a group conversation.
Sending a message via notifications
The second method is to send a notification (see how to delete notifications in a contact). We will need to find out the id of the user to whom we want to send a message and our community.
Here's information for you - how to find out the VKontakte user id, how to create a VKontakte group.
Let's go to the community. Now we need to create a new entry. At the very beginning you should write “@userid”. In our case it will look like this:
@id384697376
Then put a space and write a message.
We send it. Now the user will receive a notification and read our message. It will look like this.
Now we have contacted the person. Then it's up to you.
How to contact the person who added you to the blacklist?
You had a fight with a friend, and he, overcome with emotion, blacklisted you? How to make peace? While your name is on the blacklist, there is no way to send him a message directly through the social network. Don't be shy to reach out to mutual friends. Ask for an apology or other information explaining the reasons for the behavior.
But don’t forget, besides social networks, there are many ways to establish contact with an offended friend. Call him on Skype, Viber or phone. Better yet, buy a delicious treat and go visit. An apology made in person will have an effect much faster!
Method-3: CONTACT USER THROUGH GROUP DIALOGUES
Perhaps the best way to contact the user is to use group dialogues. It is necessary for one of your mutual friends to create a dialogue in which they would add both of you, after which you can correspond with each other.
If you need to contact a person whose personal messages are closed and you don’t know any of his friends, you can try to find a friend of his whose personal messages are open. Contact such a friend and describe the situation to him. Ask him to add a person to your dialogue with whom you need to talk.
Despite the fact that getting in touch with a person in this way is the most likely, since VKontakte users regularly check their messages, this method is still very complex and requires the ability to negotiate with strangers who will unite you with the addressee in one dialogue.
Let’s consider what information can be hidden from prying eyes point by point
If the user needs to hide photos, videos, information about the number of his subscribers on VKontakte, then he needs to repeat the previous steps from the above instructions. First you need to set the “Profile Type” to “Private”.
To hide photos from other users, you need to go to the “My Page” section, open the “Who sees my photos” and “Who sees the list of my saved photos” item, in this item you can specify “Only me”. After confirmation, none of the subscribers will be able to view personal photos.
Users can hide their account from the search engine. It is possible to hide from subscribers after installing the corresponding function. To do this, you need to log into Yandex or Google and select “Who can see my page on the Internet” in the settings. Next, you will need to select the “Everyone except search sites” option. Now no one will be able to find the account by entering user information (full name).
Video instruction
In the video you will learn how you can view any private profile on the VK website in 2021.
Closed VK profile in 2020
Ask friends for help
Another option to open a private account in VK is to contact friends (acquaintances) who have the owner of the private profile as a friend. With a sufficient level of friendly relations, they will send you all the necessary information from a closed page, while maintaining your anonymity. Remember that you should only make such a request to people you fully trust. Otherwise, your request may become the property of the author of a closed profile with unpredictable consequences.
Ask your friends for help
I recommend: How to pin messages in a conversation on VK.
Visit the desired user in person
If there is a trusting relationship between you and the owner of a private profile, you can visit his location under any pretext. Get access to his PC and view his private profile in VK 2021. Despite the low probability of this method, you should not completely reset his accounts.
Phishing sites
There are a sufficient number of services on the Internet that promise quick and convenient access to a closed page. Usually they offer you to indicate the ID of the closed page (this ID can be found, for example, using the regvk.com service), and pay some amount for their services. They also require you to enter your username and password (for allegedly accessing the desired page). You enter your data, click on the access activation button, after which nothing happens.
Phishing sites do not have any effectiveness
This procedure helps attackers obtain the login and password for your VK account. What they will do with these identifiers next is a rhetorical question. Some block the user’s page and start demanding money for access. The latter merge the received data into some user databases. Still others simply plant a virus on such an account, and it sends out various “chain letters” to all his friends on behalf of the hacked user. Other services of a similar nature (for example, the well-known vkontakte.doguran.ru) simply do not work with closed profiles, so the effectiveness of their use is deeply questionable.
Resources at the vkontakte.doguran.ru level do not provide any tangible results
Hacker help
On the Internet you can find many advertisements promising to hack any VK page and view a private VK 2021 profile for a certain fee. In most cases, it is quite difficult to verify the qualifications of such “traditional craftsmen”. In this case, it is impossible to guarantee a 100% effect, as well as a guarantee of the return of prepaid funds in case of failure. Therefore, as in the case of phishing sites, you act at your own peril and risk, and it is quite possible that the money you paid will simply disappear without any tangible result.
The help of imaginary hackers may not give any result
