How to write to a person on VK if your personal account is closed: adding as a friend, sending a gift, commenting on a post, using a group message, asking in a group

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• How to prevent a person from writing messages to me
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• How can I make it so that only friends can view my page and write messages?

If you want to complain about a person so that he is blocked altogether, read “How to complain to VKontakte.”

Message in a friend request

If it is impossible to immediately send a message to the desired user because he has closed his correspondence, you can send him a friend request. It has a special text field for writing your first message. This is where you can place information that urgently needs to be conveyed to the user.

This is done like this:

• From your account, go to the user page.
• Under his avatar, click the “Add as friend” button.

• As soon as the “Application sent” entry appears instead of this button, click on it again and select “New message” from the drop-down menu.

• Enter the text of the message in the special field and click the “Send” button.

The person will receive a message along with the application and, if desired, will respond in the standard way.

How to prevent a person from writing messages to me

How to add a person to an emergency (black list) through his page

1. Go to the person’s page and in the left column, under the main photo, find a button with three dots (menu) - . Click on it and a menu will open.
2. Select the “Block” (for example, “Block Bad”). Click on it. From now on, this person will not be able to write messages to you and will not be able to view your page.
3. The word “Block” will immediately change to “Unblock” - this means that the person is blocked. The second press removes the lock as if nothing had happened.

Of course, nothing else will change for this VKontakte user. He will use the site the same as before, communicate with people - in short, he will still have all the opportunities, but he will not be able to:

• Write messages to you (trying to send a message, he will see the message “You cannot send a message to this user because he limits the circle of people who can send him messages.”).
• View your page.

Use this function carefully and only as a last resort, when someone has really annoyed you, because sometimes you can block someone and forget about it. And you can accidentally block a friend - undoubtedly, he will be at a loss.

And also keep in mind that a blocked person can create a new VK page to try to get in touch with you again. Then you will have to block this page, and in especially severe cases, complain about the person to the VKontakte administration.

You can see everyone you've ever blocked. Click “My Settings” and then select the “Black List” tab - all the people you have blocked will be there. By the way, you can block someone there without going to their page:

How to block someone who blocked me (blacklist by name)

Go to his page in the full version of VK, it will say “...restricted access to his page.” In the left column, click “Actions”, a menu will open, then “Block”.

• How to log into the full version of VKontakte

There is another way - you can add him to your blacklist by name or by link to the page.

1. Open “Settings” and select the “Black List” tab.
2. Enter the person's name or a link to their page (there is a hint in the place where you should enter this).
3. Click the “Add to blacklist” button.
4. If there is only one person with this name, he will be immediately blocked - the message “User has been added to the blacklist” will appear.
5. If there are several such people, a list of them will appear, and next to each person there will be a link “Add to ban list.” Click this link next to the person you want to block.
6. In order to unblock a person, use the “Remove from list” link next to each blocked user on the same “Black List” tab.

You can also remove the person who blocked you from your friends (unfollow).

How to block a person so that he doesn't find out about it?

He won't know about it right away. When you blacklist a person, he does not receive any message about it. The VK website does not tell him in any way that you have just blocked him from communicating with you. But if he wants to go to your page or write to you in a personal message, he will immediately understand everything. Maybe he will even find our instructions and find out all the details: How to find out that you have been blocked on VKontakte.

There is also an interesting option to turn off notifications about messages from a specific person. That is, he will be able to write to you, messages will arrive, but notifications about them will not pop up. Let him write to himself - if you want, you can read it someday. How to do this is described here: How to disable or enable notifications about messages from a specific person?

Contact a user through group conversations

Perhaps the best way to contact the user is to use group dialogues. It is necessary for one of your mutual friends to create a dialogue in which they would add both of you, after which you can correspond with each other.

If you need to contact a person whose personal messages are closed, and you don’t know any of his friends, you can try to find a friend of his whose personal messages are open. Contact such a friend and describe the situation to him. Ask him to add a person to your dialogue with whom you need to talk.

Despite the fact that getting in touch with a person in this way is the most likely, since VKontakte users regularly check their messages, this method is still very complex and requires the ability to negotiate with strangers who will unite you with the addressee in one dialogue.

How can I prevent a person from going to my page and viewing it?

This is a softer locking option and more versatile. You can allow only friends to view your page, for example, then strangers will not be able to view it. In addition, you can prohibit writing messages to everyone except friends or a certain circle of people. The convenience here is that you don’t have to specifically choose who you want to block—you just need to determine who you want to communicate with.

How can I make it so that only friends can view my page and write messages?

1. If you have an unwanted person in your friends list, remove him from there:
   Click “My Friends” and find this person on the list.
2. Click "Unfriend".
3. Click “My Settings” and select the “Privacy” tab.
4. Find the title "My Page". Just below, opposite “Who can see the basic information of my page,” select “Only friends.”
5. Find the heading “Contact Me.” Below, opposite “Who can write me private messages,” select “Only friends.”
6. If you want, look at other items on this page and also leave access there only for friends.
7. All! The settings are saved.

Clue

On the “Privacy” tab, you can select the access option not “Only friends”, but “Everyone except...” and manually specify a person who should not see the page or write messages to you.

Important!

If you have private messages closed from strangers, do not forget about it and do not invite anyone to write to you in a personal message - they will not succeed. A lot of VKontakte communication takes place through personal messages, so you should think again about whether it’s worth depriving people of the opportunity to write to you. After all, it may happen that someone really needs to contact you, but he will not be able to do this.

Note: even if you have closed your personal account from strangers, people with whom you have corresponded before will be able to send you messages to an already started dialogue within a week.

Using group messages

This method of communication with a user who has limited the possibility of personal correspondence is rightfully considered optimal. It is perceived most naturally, does not cause internal rejection and most often leads to constructive dialogue. However, it can only be used if you have a mutual friend with this user. That is, a mutual friend should invite both you and your interlocutor to a group conversation. And after this, correspondence can be carried out without any restrictions.

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In the case where there is no such mutual friend, you can do this:

• Open the user's friends list.
• Find a person with an open page from the top of the list. Send him a message describing the situation and asking for help.

If the user meets you halfway, he will create a group dialogue and help establish communication.

Attention! The main condition that will help you use this method with maximum efficiency is psychological sensitivity and the ability to negotiate with people.

How do I unfriend (unfollow) someone who blocked me?

Indeed, if you and this person were friends on VK, and then he blocked you (restricted access), then you remain subscribed to him. How to remove yourself from subscribers and stop seeing his news?

There is nothing complicated:

1. Go to "My Friends".
2. Open "Outgoing Requests".
3. Find this person.
4. Click the “Cancel request and unsubscribe” button.

That’s it, this person won’t remind you of himself in any way. If you still can’t find where this button is, open your applications page using this link: Outgoing applications.

You can also unsubscribe from a person through your VKontakte page by clicking on “Interesting Pages” and then “Unsubscribe” next to the person you no longer need.

Send a message along with the gift

Another way to contact a stranger is to send him a message along with a gift. To do this you will need:

1. Go to the page of the message recipient and click on the “Send a gift” button;
2. Next, a gift selection window will open. The average cost of a gift is 21 rubles, but various promotions are regularly held, and it is possible to give one or another gift for free. Choose any of the gifts;
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3. The following window will open with a field for entering a message. You can write to the person what you want. However, if the information is personal or confidential, the message and the name of the gift sender can be hidden from prying eyes so that only the recipient can see it.

As you can see, there are plenty of ways to contact a user if his personal messages are closed. If you urgently need to “reach out” to a person, you can use all the above options.

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How to remove a person from subscribers?

If you don’t want to see a person among your subscribers, add him to the blacklist: open your VK page and right under the avatar click “My subscribers.” Then hover your mouse over this person and click on the cross that appears in the upper right corner.

You can remove it from the black list after 15 minutes - it will not return to the list of subscribers (to open the black list, click in the “My Settings” menu and select the “Black List” tab).

In general, you don’t have to worry about subscribers: they don’t have any rights, and on your page they see the same thing as any other third-party VK user. Subscribers don’t see what you post “for friends only.”

Restricting access to your data using privacy settings

Another option for hiding information from one person or group of people is to edit your profile. To do this, go again to the main menu, hidden under your thumbnail in the upper right corner of the site. Go to settings, section “Privacy”.

Here you can change the visibility of profile data from personal information to groups, photos, comments. It also sets restrictions on the actions of guests on your page. You can limit the number of visitors who can send you messages.

If the person you want to block is not among your friends, then she sees your account in the same way as any stranger who comes to visit. To find out what your profile looks like from the outside, below the list of privacy settings, click on the line “see how other users see your page.”

If you want to work through your profile in detail, in a separate article we have compiled step-by-step instructions for setting up VKontakte.

How to prevent adding yourself as a friend?

You may need to make sure that the person cannot add you as a friend. When submitting a friend request, he simultaneously writes a message - how to prohibit this?

Now VKontakte does not have the “Who can add me as friends” setting; it has been removed. But there is a way to prevent friend requests from strangers (those who are not friends of your friends):

1. Click “My Settings” and select the “Privacy” tab.
2. Under the heading “Contact me”, find the item “What friend requests are notified about”.
3. Put the option “From friends of friends” there.

Disabling notifications about typing in VK using an Internet browser

The method is based on the use of a very popular browser extension, which allows you to expand the functionality and ease of working with social media. VK network.

1. The extension called “VkOpt” has an official website, from where it can be installed both in a popular browser called Google Chrome and others: Yandex Browser, Opera, Comodo Dragon, Mozilla Firefox and so on.

   Go there and install the extension in your browser.

2. That's pretty much all that's required. When you go to messages and open a chat, you will see a pencil icon in the message entry form.

   By clicking on it, you will instantly disable sending notifications about typing messages. Clicking again returns this functionality. Everything is extremely simple.

How to write a message on VKontakte if your personal account is closed

So, we found a user with whom it would be nice to start a dialogue. But, unfortunately, his personal account is closed. What should we do in this case?

There is a little trick. When you send a user a friend request, you can optionally send them a message. This is done as follows.

Go to his page. If there is no “Send message” button, then the personal account is closed.

Let's do the following. Sending a friend request - click the “Add as a friend” button. After that, it will change - it will say “Application sent”.

Now click on it again. A drop-down menu will appear. In it, click “New message”.

A window will open in which you need to type a message. Then click the “Submit” button.

After this, the user will receive your friend request. And with it your message.

Error "The message could not be sent"

Why can’t I write to anyone and an error appears? VKontakte has a limitation: you can send only 20 messages per day

people who are not your friends and with whom you have not corresponded before.
When you exceed this limit, the error “The message cannot be sent because you have sent too many messages recently” appears.
If you send messages from your phone (via the app), there may be more stringent restrictions, including on the number of messages sent to friends. If it doesn’t work, try through the full version of the VK website.

This error can also appear if you send a message to a new person immediately after communicating with another person (or people) not from your friends list. Then wait and try again.

Finally, the error also occurs if you have written too many comments in groups.

Why is this done? Only to protect VKontakte users from annoying advertising. If messages were unlimited, spammers would have tired of everyone long ago. Try to understand this.

This restriction is temporary, you just need to wait a day, and messages can be sent again. If you plan to communicate with one of the people on a regular basis, add him as a friend! Then the messages sent to this person will be unlimited.

This instruction is most often read on holidays: New Year, February 23 and March 8. People want to congratulate their friends and acquaintances, they send out congratulations en masse and are faced with restrictions.

If you want to tell all your friends about something or wish them a happy holiday, you don’t need to send private messages to everyone. After all, if these are identical copied messages, they do not become truly personal

- people understand this well.

Just go to your page and write on your wall what you want to say. Your friends will see this in their VK news feed. You can even mention each one by name. If friends want, they will respond to you with a comment, like, or private message. You can also post a “story” with congratulations.

Sending a message via notifications

The second method is to send a notification (see how to delete notifications in a contact). We will need to find out the id of the user to whom we want to send a message and our community.

Let's go to the community. Now we need to create a new entry. At the very beginning you should write “@userid”. In our case it will look like this:

Then put a space and write a message.

We send it. Now the user will receive a notification and read our message. It will look like this.

Now we have contacted the person. Then it's up to you.